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Feeling Stuck Inside?

Feeling stuck is a common human experience and not necessarily a permanent state.

According to the Daily News, a global study finds 78% of people feel “stuck” professionally and or personally.


77% of people feel stuck in their personal lives,

32% feeling anxiety about their future,

27% trapped in the same routine,

25% suffered financially.


Feeling stuck is a combination of situational and psychological factors when individuals perceive themselves as being unable to make progress or move forward in specific areas of their lives. An article on #Psychreg noted that feeling stuck is that we are bound by shame. A healthy level of shame lets individuals know when they’ve made mistakes and need forgiveness or help. However, people with toxic levels of shame believe they are a failure or a plague on humanity. Extreme criticism is associated with shame keeps an individual from moving forward in life, making them feel stuck.


Factors that can influence the sense of stagnation


Lack of Control: Feeling stuck often involves a sense of powerlessness or lack of control over one's circumstances or emotions. This feeling can lead to a cycle of inaction and further reinforce the perception of being stuck.


Cognitive Biases: Cognitive biases, such as confirmation bias (favouring information that confirms existing beliefs) or the status quo bias (preferring to maintain current situations), can contribute to feeling stuck by limiting alternative perspectives or potential solutions.


Fear and Anxiety: Fear of the unknown, fear of failure, or anxiety about potential negative outcomes can paralyse individuals and prevent them from acting towards change.


Negative Thought Patterns: Negative thought patterns, such as self-doubt or a focus on perceived limitations, can hinder motivation and prevent individuals from exploring possibilities for change.


Lack of Self-Efficacy: Low self-efficacy, which is the belief in one's ability to achieve goals, can impact motivation and hinder individuals from taking the initiative to make changes.


Past Trauma or Failure: Unresolved past traumas or previous experiences of failure can create emotional barriers and discourage individuals from trying again.


Social Comparison: Constantly comparing oneself to others, especially when it seems like others are progressing while they feel stuck, can lead to feelings of inadequacy and discouragement.


Comfort Zone: The comfort and familiarity of existing routines or situations can deter individuals from taking risks or stepping outside their comfort zone.


Decision Paralysis: Having too many options or unclear choices can lead to decision paralysis, making it difficult to know which path to take.


External Expectations: Feeling pressured to meet societal or external expectations can create a sense of being stuck in living up to those standards.


Perceived Lack of Resources: Believing that one lacks the necessary resources (e.g., time, money, support) to effect change can lead to feelings of being trapped.


Lack of Clarity or Purpose: A lack of clear direction or purpose can make it challenging to know what changes to pursue.


Common Behaviours and Patterns of Feeling Stuck

People feeling stuck in their lives may exhibit certain common behaviours and patterns. These behaviours can vary depending on the individual and the specific circumstances. These include:


Procrastination: Feeling stuck can lead to avoidance of tasks and responsibilities, resulting in procrastination and delays in taking necessary actions.


Lack of Initiative: Individuals may display a lack of motivation or initiative to try new things or pursue opportunities for change.


Repetitive Routines: Feeling stuck can lead to a monotonous and repetitive daily routine, where there is little variation or excitement.


Complaining: People feeling stuck might frequently complain about their situation or circumstances without actively seeking solutions.


Indecisiveness: Difficulty in making decisions or committing to a specific course of action can be a sign of feeling trapped or uncertain about the future.


Negative Self-Talk: Feeling stuck can lead to negative self-talk, self-doubt, and a focus on perceived limitations.


Isolation: Some individuals may withdraw from social interactions and isolate themselves from others due to feelings of frustration or helplessness.


Escapism: Engaging in excessive escapism, such as spending excessive time on social media, watching TV, or indulging in substance or alcohol use, can be a way to avoid confronting feelings of being stuck.


Resistance to Change: People feeling stuck might resist change, e

ven if it could potentially lead to positive outcomes, due to fear or a preference for the status quo.


Blaming External Factors: Individuals may blame external factors or other people for their circumstances rather than taking responsibility for their own actions.


Loss of Interest: Feeling stuck can lead to a lack of interest in previously enjoyed activities or hobbies.


Feeling Overwhelmed: The sense of being stuck can lead to a feeling of overwhelm, making it challenging to see a way out or where to start.


NOTE that recognising these behaviours in oneself or in others can be the first step towards understanding the underlying issues and seeking ways to initiate positive changes and personal growth. If feeling stuck significantly impacts your daily life and wellbeing, then seeking support from friends, family, or professional such as life coach, therapist, or counsellor can be helpful in navigating through these emotions and finding a path forward.


❓Are you familiar with any of the above behaviours & patterns?❓


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